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Seeker: Dear Ram, it is with great resignation and displeasure that I ask you this question. Is life really a losing game? Is there no hope at all? I realize it’s childish, I should just inquire directly, but I want confirmation to what, for the ego, is the shittiest thing ever.
Ram: This you have to discover on your own through experience if you can’t accept scripture. For every gain there is a loss. It is not a losing game. It is a losing and winning game. So chase the women until it is clear that a woman cannot complete you. Then take up the next vasana, and so on until you become dispassionate. Vedanta only works for dispassionate persons.
If you want moksa in addition to a relationship then do the relationship as karma yoga. Your dispassion will come sooner rather than later. But it seems there is no way around it for you. So go for it.
~ Love, Ram