Sam: The relationship ban is going quite well. I’m noticing more energy for inquiry. The mind still wonders if there is something missing, but I know there is not, as I…
Anna: What a year, dear Sundari, what a year. I’m okay. I am still married. There is no chicken without an egg without a chicken without an egg.
2017 has been…
Seeker: One thing I’d like to ask about. I have a vasana for suffering in a relationship; I think it stems right back to the death of my grandmother, the vasana seems to be dependent…
Franco: I am okay, but life with Mira is not really easy. It got much better for three or four days (after I told her that I will be leaving the…
Mani: Dear James and Sundari, it’s a long email, please feel free to pass it on after reading through the apologies. Also, it has some intimate details, but I know you…
Aleksandra: I am returning to our earlier correspondence because I’m still working on my love/sex vasana, which is an ongoing battle. I have my victories and I can see the self-knowledge working on…
Laura: I have been thinking whether to write to you or not. Since I have tremendous difficulties to sort this issue out by myself, I decided to write to you. I…
Non-Dual Love
by Sundari
Non-Dual Love Is Who You Are
“Non-dual love” as it relates to relationships is not a common term in the spiritual world. We have been asked…
Love is Awareness Directed to an Object
Everyone wants to be loved but an emotionally needy person does not know why. He or she accepts the commands of the longing…
Joanne: Dear Ram, you asked about my practice on the phone the other night and I didn’t give a very good answer. The answer is that it has been pointing me…